For international intended parents, one of the biggest questions about U.S. surrogacy is:
Do we need to live in the United States throughout the surrogacy journey?
The good news is that many parts of the process can often be coordinated remotely. From initial consultations and surrogate matching to pregnancy updates, international families may be able to stay involved without relocating to the U.S.
However, some stages—particularly fertility treatment, legal documentation, delivery and newborn travel arrangements—may require in-person participation.
Here's what international intended parents should know before starting their surrogacy journey in 2026.
Yes, many parts of the U.S. surrogacy process can be managed remotely.
Depending on the fertility clinic, surrogacy agency and legal requirements, intended parents may be able to complete several stages from their home country.
|
Surrogacy Stage |
Can It Be Done Remotely? |
|---|---|
|
Initial consultation |
Usually yes |
|
Surrogate matching |
Often yes |
|
Medical and IVF coordination |
Partially |
|
Legal agreements |
Often, depending on requirements |
|
Embryo transfer |
IP attendance often not required |
|
Pregnancy updates |
Usually yes |
|
Delivery and newborn arrangements |
Travel often needed |
*Requirements vary by fertility clinic, jurisdiction, family circumstances and documentation needs.
Although many stages can be handled remotely, there are situations where traveling to the United States may be necessary.
If intended parents need to provide eggs or sperm, undergo IVF procedures, or complete certain medical tests, they may need to visit their fertility clinic.
However, some testing may be completed locally, and frozen embryos may sometimes be transported internationally through specialized services.
Whether travel is necessary depends on the clinic's requirements and the family's treatment plan.
Intended parents are not generally required to be physically present during their surrogate's embryo transfer.
The procedure is performed by the fertility clinic with the gestational carrier.
Some intended parents choose to attend for emotional support, while others participate remotely when clinic policies permit.
The American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) recommends appropriate screening, informed consent and completed legal agreements before gestational carrier treatment proceeds.
For international intended parents, the baby's birth is usually the most important time to plan U.S. travel.
Families may need to be present for:
Hospital and newborn care arrangements
Meeting and caring for their newborn
Completing birth-related documentation
Applying for the baby's travel documents
Preparing to return home
Because delivery dates are unpredictable, intended parents should plan a flexible travel window.
After delivery, international intended parents generally need to coordinate several documents before traveling home.
Depending on the family's situation, these may include:
The U.S. Department of State advises families traveling internationally with children to review destination-specific entry requirements and carry evidence of their legal relationship to the child.
Important: U.S. birth registration, citizenship, passport eligibility and recognition of parentage abroad are separate legal questions. Requirements can change, and families should confirm their child's status and travel-document pathway with qualified attorneys and the relevant government authorities before making travel plans.
There is no universal length of stay.
The required time depends on the newborn's health, hospital discharge, birth certificate processing, passport applications and home-country documentation.
International intended parents should allow flexibility rather than booking a fixed return date too early.
If the baby requires additional medical care or documents take longer than expected, the family may need to extend its stay.
Planning ahead can make the surrogacy journey more manageable.
Before beginning, intended parents should clarify:
Which IVF procedures require in-person attendance
Whether legal documents can be completed remotely
How they will receive pregnancy updates
When they should travel for delivery
How parentage will be established
Which passport and entry documents the baby will need
Whether their home country recognizes the parent-child relationship
Surrogacy laws vary across U.S. states, and international intended parents may face additional restrictions depending on nationality and the state involved.
Often, yes. Initial consultations, matching and much of the administrative coordination may be completed remotely, depending on the program and legal requirements.
Usually not. Intended parents may choose to attend, but their physical presence is generally not required for the medical procedure itself.
Sometimes. Video calls, messages and ultrasound updates can help intended parents stay involved, subject to the surrogate's consent and healthcare provider policies.
International intended parents should generally plan to travel around delivery to care for their newborn and coordinate required documentation. Specific legal and practical arrangements depend on the case.
Not necessarily. The newborn must be medically ready for discharge, and the family must obtain the required travel and entry documents.
Do intended parents need to travel to the U.S. for surrogacy?
Not for every stage.
Many parts of the journey—from consultations and matching to pregnancy updates—can often be managed remotely.
However, medical procedures, legal requirements, delivery and newborn documentation may require travel or in-person coordination.
For international families, the key is to plan travel, legal parentage and the baby's return-home documentation before the journey begins.
American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM). Recommendations for Practices Using Gestational Carriers: A Committee Opinion (2022).
American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM). Gestational Carrier Policy in the United States.
U.S. Department of State. Travel with Minors.
https://travel.state.gov/en/international-travel/planning/personal-needs/minors.html
This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, legal or immigration advice. Surrogacy laws, citizenship rules, passport requirements and international travel procedures vary by jurisdiction and individual circumstances. Consult qualified reproductive attorneys, immigration professionals and relevant government authorities before making decisions.
At New Grace, we help intended parents navigate U.S. surrogacy, including surrogate matching, medical coordination, legal-process coordination and pregnancy support.
Whether you already have frozen embryos or are beginning your family-building journey, our team can help you understand the process and prepare for the next steps.
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