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What Disqualifies You From Becoming a Surrogate? 10 Common Reasons You May Not Qualify

Edit Time: 2026-06-30

Becoming a surrogate is an incredible way to help another family achieve their dream of parenthood.

However, not everyone qualifies—and that's completely okay.

Surrogacy programs have medical and lifestyle requirements designed to protect the health of the surrogate, the baby, and the intended parents.

If you're wondering whether you qualify, this guide explains the most common reasons applicants may not be eligible.

1. You Haven't Had a Healthy Full-Term Pregnancy

One of the most important requirements is having previously delivered at least one healthy baby.

Why?

A previous healthy pregnancy helps fertility specialists better understand how your body responds to pregnancy and reduces potential risks for everyone involved.

2. Your BMI Is Outside the Program Guidelines

Most surrogacy agencies and fertility clinics have BMI requirements.

While the exact number varies by clinic, many programs prefer candidates whose BMI falls within a healthy range.

This is because BMI can affect:

  • Pregnancy complications
  • IVF success
  • Maternal and fetal health

If your BMI is currently outside the guideline, improving your overall health may help you qualify in the future.

3. You Smoke or Use Nicotine Products

Most surrogacy programs do not accept applicants who:

  • Smoke cigarettes
  • Vape nicotine
  • Use tobacco products

Nicotine exposure increases pregnancy-related risks and may reduce IVF success rates.

Applicants are generally expected to be nicotine-free before entering the program.

4. You Have Certain Medical Conditions

Some medical conditions may make pregnancy higher risk.

Examples include:

  • Uncontrolled diabetes
  • Significant heart disease
  • Serious kidney disease
  • Certain autoimmune disorders

Each applicant is reviewed individually by fertility specialists.

Having a medical condition does not automatically mean you cannot qualify, but additional evaluation may be required.

5. Your Pregnancy History Indicates Increased Risk

Your previous pregnancies provide important medical information.

Some situations that may require further review include:

  • Multiple pregnancy complications
  • Recurrent preterm births
  • Severe preeclampsia
  • Significant postpartum complications

The goal is always to prioritize the safety of both the surrogate and the baby.

6. Certain Medications May Affect Eligibility

Some prescription medications may not be compatible with IVF treatment or pregnancy.

Examples include medications used to treat:

  • Certain psychiatric conditions
  • Autoimmune diseases
  • Chronic pain
  • Other long-term medical conditions

This doesn't necessarily mean you won't qualify, but your medical team will carefully review your history.

7. An Unstable Lifestyle or Lack of Support

Surrogacy requires commitment over many months.

Programs often look for applicants who have:

  • Stable housing
  • Reliable transportation
  • A supportive partner, family member, or friend
  • The ability to attend appointments

A strong support system contributes to a smoother journey.

8. Recent Pregnancy or Delivery

Your body needs adequate time to recover before beginning another pregnancy.

Most programs require a waiting period after giving birth before starting the surrogacy process.

The exact timeframe depends on your delivery history and your physician's recommendations.

9. Certain Legal or Residency Requirements

Many U.S. surrogacy programs require applicants to:

  • Live in the United States
  • Have legal authorization to remain in the U.S.
  • Meet state-specific program requirements

Eligibility criteria may vary depending on the fertility clinic and intended parents.

10. Psychological Readiness Matters

Surrogacy is both a physical and emotional commitment.

As part of the process, candidates complete a psychological evaluation to ensure they understand:

  • The medical process
  • The emotional aspects of carrying a baby for another family
  • The responsibilities involved

This evaluation is designed to support—not discourage—potential surrogates.

Not Qualifying Today Doesn't Mean Never

Many women worry they'll be turned away permanently.

In reality, some reasons for not qualifying are temporary.

For example:

  • Recovering from a recent pregnancy
  • Reaching a healthier BMI
  • Quitting smoking
  • Completing recommended medical treatment

If you're not eligible today, you may still qualify in the future.

The Best Way to Know? Apply.

Reading requirements online can be helpful—but every situation is unique.

The fastest way to find out if you're eligible is to complete a confidential application and speak with an experienced coordinator.

Our team reviews every application individually and is happy to answer your questions.

Start Your Surrogacy Journey with New Grace

At New Grace, we guide potential surrogates through every step of the qualification process.

We'll help you understand:

  • Whether you meet the requirements
  • What the screening process involves
  • What to expect if you're approved

If you're ready to learn more, we'd love to hear from you.

👉 Apply today to see if you qualify.
👉 Speak with a New Grace coordinator.
👉 Take the first step toward an incredible journey.

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This content is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. All fertility decisions should be made based on your individual circumstances and in consultation with qualified medical professionals.

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